Wednesday, March 26, 2014
March 26th
Just a reminder that there will NOT be a live show today! But the show will resume next week with a brand new episode! However, please enjoy a new blog post from contributor Jill Hancock Reeder, author of Once Upon A Surrogate: The Stork's Helpers and blogger at Mormon Surrogate: I'm not the mom. I'm just the stork. In this week's post she updates us on her surrogacy journey complete with lots of photos! Be sure to check it out!
Friday, March 21, 2014
March 21st
It's been another great week on the ABC's of Surrogacy! You can now listen to our show with guest host Dr. Said Daneshmand on demand, and be sure to visit www.fertilitycenterlv.com for more information on Dr. Daneshmand and his practice.
Richard Westoby has published a new segment in his blog series, Our Guide to Surrogacy in the U.S., which is available now on our blog.
The show will be on break next Wednesday but will return with a brand new episode and another amazing guest host (Kim Ormsby from Gro-Via) on Wednesday, April 2, 2014! We'll see you then!
Richard Westoby has published a new segment in his blog series, Our Guide to Surrogacy in the U.S., which is available now on our blog.
The show will be on break next Wednesday but will return with a brand new episode and another amazing guest host (Kim Ormsby from Gro-Via) on Wednesday, April 2, 2014! We'll see you then!
Who to Choose First – the IVF Clinic or Surrogacy Agency?
by Richard Westoby
From the series, Our Guide to Surrogacy in the U.S.
Knowing what I now know, this is a super simple question to answer. Without hesitation I recommend that you pick the Doctor first, then the clinic then the people that will help you with the rest of the process!
I very much doubt that you would go for heart surgery by choosing the hospital without researching the Doctor performing the surgery, so why create your family any differently? Research your Doctor, check their pregnancy success rates, live birth rates, how many transfers they do, single or twin transfers and most importantly TALK TO THEM – you must follow your instinct. If you like the Doctor that is wonderful, if not then find one that you do.
At the time we were making the choice of which route to go first we had no idea what we were supposed to be doing! We naively believed that by getting in touch with an agency we would be guided by them to make the right choices.
Not necessarily so. I might be tarring all agencies with the same brush but bear in mind that what is in the best interest of the agency is not necessarily in your best interest. Two classic examples are where you are "guided" towards an IVF clinic that just happens to have a tie-in to the agency! Or they guide you towards an insurance broker in which they just happen to have a minority stake.... Surrogacy is a business, and a profitable one, so make sure you know who does what, how they fit in to the picture and make decisions that are right for you.
At the same time, I have also heard that some IVF clinics are trying to get more involved in the whole puzzle and are starting to act like a surrogacy agency by matching patients and surrogates. That is wrong too, but when money is talking it is amazing what ideas start cropping up. I also think that agencies should not have egg donor banks as typically the egg donors have not been medically screened for their viability in producing suitable quality or quantity of eggs and you an get your heart set on a donor that ultimately doesn't work.
So, in a nutshell I think let the agency find you a surrogate, look after all the paperwork, manage your escrow account and basically handle all of the "case management" bureaucracy. And let the IVF clinic medically screen and assess the suitability of the egg donors and evaluate them before you see them. Let the clinic manage the IVF protocols (drug doses etc) and do the retrieval, fertilisation and transfer... after all that is why you are paying each of them a vast sum of money!
I believe that your Doctor is THE most important part of making your IVF family so maybe I'm missing something but I say let the Doctor do the medical stuff and let the agency do the legal stuff... After all that is what they should be good at doing.
About Richard
Richard and his partner Steven undertook surrogacy in the United States and learned everything about the process during the process. Since the twins were born, Richard has become an advocate helping prospective parents (both gay and straight) learn more about surrogacy in general but predominantly about doing it in the US. In doing so Richard aims to help parents make informed decisions from the outset which should hopefully save them not only a lot of hassle but also a lot of money.
Richard has always had a fascination with biology and on the back of his experiences and his advocacy work he now also helps US fertility clinics in the UK reach out to prospective parents.
Richard's basic step-by-step guide featured in the We are Family Magazine Winter 2013 edition. Richard is also actively involved within the UK gay dads community in organisations such as GaySurrogacyUK and Families Thru Surrogacy.
Biography and photo courtesy of Richard Westoby and www.guidetosurrogacy.com
Follow Richard on Twitter @RW1602
Buy, "Our Journey: One Couple's Guide to U.S. Surrogacy" available now!
From the series, Our Guide to Surrogacy in the U.S.
Knowing what I now know, this is a super simple question to answer. Without hesitation I recommend that you pick the Doctor first, then the clinic then the people that will help you with the rest of the process!
I very much doubt that you would go for heart surgery by choosing the hospital without researching the Doctor performing the surgery, so why create your family any differently? Research your Doctor, check their pregnancy success rates, live birth rates, how many transfers they do, single or twin transfers and most importantly TALK TO THEM – you must follow your instinct. If you like the Doctor that is wonderful, if not then find one that you do.
At the time we were making the choice of which route to go first we had no idea what we were supposed to be doing! We naively believed that by getting in touch with an agency we would be guided by them to make the right choices.
Not necessarily so. I might be tarring all agencies with the same brush but bear in mind that what is in the best interest of the agency is not necessarily in your best interest. Two classic examples are where you are "guided" towards an IVF clinic that just happens to have a tie-in to the agency! Or they guide you towards an insurance broker in which they just happen to have a minority stake.... Surrogacy is a business, and a profitable one, so make sure you know who does what, how they fit in to the picture and make decisions that are right for you.
At the same time, I have also heard that some IVF clinics are trying to get more involved in the whole puzzle and are starting to act like a surrogacy agency by matching patients and surrogates. That is wrong too, but when money is talking it is amazing what ideas start cropping up. I also think that agencies should not have egg donor banks as typically the egg donors have not been medically screened for their viability in producing suitable quality or quantity of eggs and you an get your heart set on a donor that ultimately doesn't work.
So, in a nutshell I think let the agency find you a surrogate, look after all the paperwork, manage your escrow account and basically handle all of the "case management" bureaucracy. And let the IVF clinic medically screen and assess the suitability of the egg donors and evaluate them before you see them. Let the clinic manage the IVF protocols (drug doses etc) and do the retrieval, fertilisation and transfer... after all that is why you are paying each of them a vast sum of money!
I believe that your Doctor is THE most important part of making your IVF family so maybe I'm missing something but I say let the Doctor do the medical stuff and let the agency do the legal stuff... After all that is what they should be good at doing.
Richard and his partner Steven undertook surrogacy in the United States and learned everything about the process during the process. Since the twins were born, Richard has become an advocate helping prospective parents (both gay and straight) learn more about surrogacy in general but predominantly about doing it in the US. In doing so Richard aims to help parents make informed decisions from the outset which should hopefully save them not only a lot of hassle but also a lot of money.
Richard has always had a fascination with biology and on the back of his experiences and his advocacy work he now also helps US fertility clinics in the UK reach out to prospective parents.
Richard's basic step-by-step guide featured in the We are Family Magazine Winter 2013 edition. Richard is also actively involved within the UK gay dads community in organisations such as GaySurrogacyUK and Families Thru Surrogacy.
Biography and photo courtesy of Richard Westoby and www.guidetosurrogacy.com
Follow Richard on Twitter @RW1602
Buy, "Our Journey: One Couple's Guide to U.S. Surrogacy" available now!
Wednesday, March 19, 2014
Episode 31: Dr. Said Daneshmand - Reproductive Endocrinologist with Fertility Center Las Vegas
Dr. Said Daneshmand completed his residency and fellowship training at UCLA Medical Center and is Sub-specialty Board Certified in Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility. Always committed to research, at UCLA Dr. Daneshmand focused his studies on the effect of female age on ovarian reserve and contributed to the development of a blood test to determine the quality of eggs in the ovaries. Additionally, during his time at UCLA, he also authored “A Guide to Residency Application,” a text for medical students.
After joining The Fertility Center of Las Vegas in 1999, Dr. Daneshmand was integral in establishing the region’s first egg freezing program. He collaborated with his partner, Dr. Bruce Shapiro, to develop IVF protocols to improve pregnancy rates, including PTEC (post thaw extended culture), one of the most successful IVF regimens currently available. Their groundbreaking findings were published in the internationally respected medical journal, Fertility and Sterility, where Dr. Daneshmand has also served as a reviewer for the same publication. Additionally, Dr. Daneshmand and Dr. Shapiro’s voluminous research has been presented at both national and international conferences and IVFreports.org has recognized The Fertility Center of Las Vegas for their stellar pregnancy rates.
Dr. Daneshmand is the recipient of the Eileen Pike Medical School Valedictorian award, the Pacific Coast Reproductive Society (PCRS) fellowship and the PCRS practicing physician research award. He was also the President of the Iota Chapter of the Alpha Omega Alpha national medical honor society. He is a member of the Decherney Society, the American Society for Reproductive Medicine and ESHRE, the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology.
Currently, as the Practice Director at The Fertility Center of Las Vegas, Dr. Daneshmand’s special interest lies in developing protocols for patients undergoing IVF, especially those patients with previous unsuccessful cycles.
Dr. Daneshmand is a Reproductive Endocrinologist and the Practice Director at Fertility Center Las Vegas.
www.fertilitycenterlv.com
Monday, March 17, 2014
March 17th
The ABC's of Surrogacy is pleased to welcome Dr. Said Dandeshmand, MD, FACOG to the show! Dr. Daneshmand is a Reproductive Endocrinologist and the Practice Director at Fertility Center Las Vegas and will be discussing surrogacy from a medical perspective. You will definitely not want to miss out! Join in live at 7pm PST on BlogTalkRadio.com!
Wednesday, March 12, 2014
Episode 30: Common Legal Questions and Concerns Regarding Surrogacy, with Guest Host Michelle Keeyes, Esq.
For more information about the Reproductive Law Center, please visit www.rlcsd.com.
Monday, March 10, 2014
March 10th
This week's show will be Common Legal Questions and Concerns Regarding Surrogacy and will feature guest guest Michelle Keeyes, Esq. Be sure to tune in for the live show Wednesday at 7pm on BlogTalkRadio.com, or any time on demand on BlogTalkRadio or here on the ABC's of Surrogacy!
Why We Chose Surrogacy in the U.S.
by Richard Westoby
From the series, Our Guide to Surrogacy in the U.S.
Surrogacy in the US is definitely the most expensive place to go through the process and I am regularly asked why chose it instead of doing it in a “cheaper” jurisdiction. We had the choice of going to multiple countries namely the US, Thailand, the Ukraine, Georgia and India. India is now not an option for same-sex couples (as the law is changing), but why the US?
In all honesty the answer is very simple – we felt that the tried and tested legal framework in the US would offer us and our children the best protection. The US is a country where surrogacy has been going for years and as such it is an “understood” concept.
We wanted our family to be created in a country where we would be recognised as the parents of the children immediately and have all of the associated rights.
In the UK surrogacy contracts are unenforceable and the surrogate mother has rights for the first 6 weeks of the child’s life. We felt that Eastern Europe and Thailand were not advanced enough for us to gain the level of comfort we wanted and that left the US.
About Richard
Richard and his partner Steven undertook surrogacy in the United States and learned everything about the process during the process. Since the twins were born, Richard has become an advocate helping prospective parents (both gay and straight) learn more about surrogacy in general but predominantly about doing it in the US. In doing so Richard aims to help parents make informed decisions from the outset which should hopefully save them not only a lot of hassle but also a lot of money.
Richard has always had a fascination with biology and on the back of his experiences and his advocacy work he now also helps US fertility clinics in the UK reach out to prospective parents.
Richard's basic step-by-step guide featured in the We are Family Magazine Winter 2013 edition. Richard is also actively involved within the UK gay dads community in organisations such as GaySurrogacyUK and Families Thru Surrogacy.
Biography and photo courtesy of Richard Westoby and www.guidetosurrogacy.com
Follow Richard on Twitter @RW1602
Buy, "Our Journey: One Couple's Guide to U.S. Surrogacy" available now!
From the series, Our Guide to Surrogacy in the U.S.
Surrogacy in the US is definitely the most expensive place to go through the process and I am regularly asked why chose it instead of doing it in a “cheaper” jurisdiction. We had the choice of going to multiple countries namely the US, Thailand, the Ukraine, Georgia and India. India is now not an option for same-sex couples (as the law is changing), but why the US?
In all honesty the answer is very simple – we felt that the tried and tested legal framework in the US would offer us and our children the best protection. The US is a country where surrogacy has been going for years and as such it is an “understood” concept.
We wanted our family to be created in a country where we would be recognised as the parents of the children immediately and have all of the associated rights.
In the UK surrogacy contracts are unenforceable and the surrogate mother has rights for the first 6 weeks of the child’s life. We felt that Eastern Europe and Thailand were not advanced enough for us to gain the level of comfort we wanted and that left the US.
Richard and his partner Steven undertook surrogacy in the United States and learned everything about the process during the process. Since the twins were born, Richard has become an advocate helping prospective parents (both gay and straight) learn more about surrogacy in general but predominantly about doing it in the US. In doing so Richard aims to help parents make informed decisions from the outset which should hopefully save them not only a lot of hassle but also a lot of money.
Richard has always had a fascination with biology and on the back of his experiences and his advocacy work he now also helps US fertility clinics in the UK reach out to prospective parents.
Richard's basic step-by-step guide featured in the We are Family Magazine Winter 2013 edition. Richard is also actively involved within the UK gay dads community in organisations such as GaySurrogacyUK and Families Thru Surrogacy.
Biography and photo courtesy of Richard Westoby and www.guidetosurrogacy.com
Follow Richard on Twitter @RW1602
Buy, "Our Journey: One Couple's Guide to U.S. Surrogacy" available now!
Sunday, March 9, 2014
Los Angeles Surrogacy Center Founder Dawn Marmorstein's “ABCs of Surrogacy” BlogTalkRadio.com Program Hits 10,000 Listens since First Airing in July 2013
LOS ANGELES, CA (PRWEB) March 09, 2014
“The ABCs of Surrogacy,” a weekly online radio program on blogtalkradio.com that provides a comprehensive overview on every aspect of surrogacy, pregnancy and baby related topics using the expertise of industry professionals, has had 10,000 listens since the show’s debut in July 2013.
The ongoing series, created and hosted by Dawn Marmorstein, founder of Los Angeles Surrogacy Center, is designed to educate future recipient parents, surrogate mothers, and anyone interested in the surrogacy process on the multiple components, which comprise a surrogate journey. Marmorstein explained, “I created ABCs Of Surrogacy because the Internet really lacks good solid information on surrogacy. Most of the message boards and websites, which are supposed to educate those who are interested in surrogacy, are not written or moderated by anyone who is an actual industry professional, and often contain a lot of misinformation on how the surrogacy process works, which puts recipient parents and surrogates at risk – medically, legally and financially – when they receive inaccurate information about the surrogacy process."
She said that the “ABCs Of Surrogacy” has also successfully bridged the gap between pregnancy and baby experts, who often distance themselves from third party reproduction by having them as guests on her show to give advice on pregnancy and baby related topics. Her program attracts listeners who are both interested in surrogacy, as well as topics which are of interest to any parent or parent to be. And her large listener base has grown completely organically. “We haven’t done any advertising for the show. Its all been through word of mouth and social media, so I am beyond excited by numbers and the future of the show. Our new “ABCs Of Surrogacy” website, http://www.abcsofsurrogacy.com, is also seeing an increased, steady flow of traffic from those seeking accurate information about surrogacy, pregnancy and baby,” she added.
The “ABCs of Surrogacy” radio show has a Facebook page with more than 900 likes, she said, which is growing weekly.
Upcoming episodes include legal professionals, cloth diapering experts, home birthing using midwives and doulas, fertility issues, egg freezing, and other topics.
“The ABCS of Surrogacy” blogtalkradio.com program can be heard live on Wednesdays at 10:00 pm EDT (7:00 pm PDT) or via podcast anytime on http://www.blogtalkradio.com. There are nearly 30 episodes of previous broadcasts available on demand.
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Los Angeles Surrogacy Center
9107 Wilshire Blvd. Suite 450
Beverly Hills, CA 90210
Telephone: (424)653-6341
Read the full story at http://www.prweb.com/releases/2014/03/prweb11650247.htm
“The ABCs of Surrogacy,” a weekly online radio program on blogtalkradio.com that provides a comprehensive overview on every aspect of surrogacy, pregnancy and baby related topics using the expertise of industry professionals, has had 10,000 listens since the show’s debut in July 2013.
The ongoing series, created and hosted by Dawn Marmorstein, founder of Los Angeles Surrogacy Center, is designed to educate future recipient parents, surrogate mothers, and anyone interested in the surrogacy process on the multiple components, which comprise a surrogate journey. Marmorstein explained, “I created ABCs Of Surrogacy because the Internet really lacks good solid information on surrogacy. Most of the message boards and websites, which are supposed to educate those who are interested in surrogacy, are not written or moderated by anyone who is an actual industry professional, and often contain a lot of misinformation on how the surrogacy process works, which puts recipient parents and surrogates at risk – medically, legally and financially – when they receive inaccurate information about the surrogacy process."
She said that the “ABCs Of Surrogacy” has also successfully bridged the gap between pregnancy and baby experts, who often distance themselves from third party reproduction by having them as guests on her show to give advice on pregnancy and baby related topics. Her program attracts listeners who are both interested in surrogacy, as well as topics which are of interest to any parent or parent to be. And her large listener base has grown completely organically. “We haven’t done any advertising for the show. Its all been through word of mouth and social media, so I am beyond excited by numbers and the future of the show. Our new “ABCs Of Surrogacy” website, http://www.abcsofsurrogacy.com, is also seeing an increased, steady flow of traffic from those seeking accurate information about surrogacy, pregnancy and baby,” she added.
The “ABCs of Surrogacy” radio show has a Facebook page with more than 900 likes, she said, which is growing weekly.
Upcoming episodes include legal professionals, cloth diapering experts, home birthing using midwives and doulas, fertility issues, egg freezing, and other topics.
“The ABCS of Surrogacy” blogtalkradio.com program can be heard live on Wednesdays at 10:00 pm EDT (7:00 pm PDT) or via podcast anytime on http://www.blogtalkradio.com. There are nearly 30 episodes of previous broadcasts available on demand.
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Los Angeles Surrogacy Center
9107 Wilshire Blvd. Suite 450
Beverly Hills, CA 90210
Telephone: (424)653-6341
Read the full story at http://www.prweb.com/releases/2014/03/prweb11650247.htm
Thursday, March 6, 2014
March 6th
It's been a busy week on The ABC's of Surrogacy! Did you have a chance to listen to our TWO (yes, two!) shows this week? On Monday we spoke with Sam Everingam and Jason Howe from Families Through Surrogacy about their many conferences held around the world to educate about surrogacy worldwide! Watch/listen to it here. Then on Wednesday we spoke with Cory Silverberg, author of "What Makes A Baby", a fantastic book for children and families which explains where babies come from without specifying gender. You can watch/listen to that episode here!
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
Episode 29: "What Makes A Baby", featuring guest host Cory Silverberg
Raised by a children’s librarian and a sex therapist, Cory grew up to be a sexuality educator and writer.
He received his Masters of Education from the University of Toronto, and was a founding member of the Come As You Are Co-operative. He is currently chair of educator certification for the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), and teaches across North America on topics including sexuality and disability, technology, access, and inclusion. Cory is the Sexuality Guide for About.com and the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability with Miriam Kaufman and Fran Odette.
What Makes a Baby is the first book in a series of kid’s books Cory is working on about sexuality and gender. It was released in 2013.
Follow on Twitter @aboutsexuality
"What Makes A Baby" on Facebook
www.corysilverberg.com
Cory has eight nephews and nieces, all of whom know where babies come from.
Monday, March 3, 2014
Episode 28: Families Through Surrogacy
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